Okay i tried jiggling the key and that didnt change anything.

I ran a 12v line directly to the fuel pump and the car starts just fine, so that proves there is nothing wrong with the pump.

the brant is behaving properly as far as i can tell, just that the pump never gets the power.

so likely it is the 3 relays rexy mentions however i cant find them So im going to take a photo of my car's under dash area to see if you can help me find it :P