cheers mate, i appreciate your input. yeh your right in saying when your not well your not in a great state of mind, you have no idea how much i wish i just stayed home, it was such a spur of the moment thing to head out to rent a movie after being in on the couch feeling sorry for myself all day, but i guess what's done is done, as everyone keeps telling me the important thing is the other driver and i walked away, i can always find another nice car,