I hear ya guys, but the one thing we both agree on is that we don't wanna line the lawyers' pockets. They then end up being the only winners in these things. (Not that a divorcing couple wins in any way except a path to freedom from each other).
There is still a chance of amicable settlement thru mediation and I'm willing to concede to a point... at least that way we wont each be paying 4 figures for lawyers and I consider I'll come out in front on a personal basis than if I go down the lawyer route.
The only other thing I'm concerned about is that it still has to go thru the Family Law Court and apparently they have a monitoring process these days, whereby they will intervene and make a new ruling if it can be seen that one party is significantly worse off financially.
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